So, recently I have seen a shift in relationships both my own and of my friends. Then I started think about the different people that I, as a teenager, have relationships with and how I act with each. I thought that in this post I would explore a few that I have in my life.
Bestie:
Your bestie is your anchor. Your rock. They one you can always turn to. It's really important to have someone like this in your life, someone who knows you the best. This person could be anyone! My bestie's best traits include: confidence, great smile, kind, sarcastic, funny, loving, knows me, can always make me feel better! If your really lucky, you may be blessed with more than one best friend! My advice for you lucky people, and everyone else, is to never let them go!!!
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| Me & my bestie and fellow blogger, Jaymi Evans |
Friends:
Having a good group of friends guarantees that life will just become that little bit easier. Just being able to hang with those who make you feel good and laugh, especially at school, can make any hard day better. Your friends don't always have to share your interests, in fact, most of my friends don't like what I do! I think that if they can make you laugh and feel better then you found your crowd. Sadly, not all friendships are made to last and that's ok. Sometimes you just have to be grateful for the fun times you had. If you have a friendship that is falling apart then don't force yourself into making it work. Let what needs to happen happen. Maybe you just need some space? Maybe you'll drift back together? Don't worry about it and be happy!
Parents:
We all know that we don't always get on with our parents/guardians. We fight with them, don't listen or are just plain rude. Most of the time we think that they are wrong or strict, but really they're not. Sadly, we won't really notice this until we are older and then it's because we have kids of our own. So to every parent/guardian out there, on behalf of all the moody teenagers, I would like to say thank you for all that you do and put up with: the attitude, the ironing, the washing, the cleaning, the stinky socks, the tears, and driving. We know you do so much more and we thank you from the bottom of our hearts!!! You are very much appreciated. Your actions do not go unnoticed!
For all the teens out there, make sure you say a big thank you to the person who does this for you! And remember that they will love you unconditionally, till the end of time!!!
Siblings:
For those who are unfortunate enough to be an only child, then you won't be able to relate to this. For your benefit, imagine this:
There is another person that lives with you that needs everything you do. Your parents no longer give you all the attention; it is now a competition to earn it. You have to be fast to get what you want or someone else will. There is now another opinion that you have to put up with, which most of the time is the most annoying thing you could hear. There is hardly a day that goes by that you don't have a fight with this other person. You become great at hand to hand combat!!! Welcome to the Sibling Hunger Games!!!
If your lucky enough, like myself, to be blessed with more than one sibling, than these things become more extreme.
Although all these things sound horrible and extreme, I love all of my siblings to death and would never ever want anyone else but them. They are hilarious and make my day so much better!
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| My younger brother, Jack |
Partner:
I may not have a boyfriend but for those who do, I would really like to know what advice you have! Share your tips on a good relationship and the positive experiences you have had!
Now in high school, every bloody second day someone has either broken up or got together!!! I think I know one person who currently has a relationship lasting over a year. It's a JOKE! My question is: How serious should a teen relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend) be? By the way they act, it is more serious then I could imagine...
To all those who you do, I would like to give you a few pointers:
- No one wants to see you making out in public!!!
- You can detach from each other (unless your super glued. Then I can't help.)
- Holding hands is an acceptable PDA!
Other than that, do what you want!!!
So that was my view on some relationship in my life at the moment. I hope that you can relate to these and if you have anything to add, write it in the comments!
Talk To You Guys Later!!!
Love Rosey Blue
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